Riches & wealth
As a kid, my concept of “rich people” were the people that I babysat for regularly. I met them by riding my bike to every house I could pedal to in the area and dropping off a card with my babysitting rates & phone number on it.
These people had several things in common: they were all willing to give me a shot, and they all gave their kids expensive items, lived in houses that were much, MUCH larger than ours, owned businesses, were gone a lot, and drove fancy cars.
Almost all of them also tended to overpay me, which was a nice plus.
But were they wealthy?
I’m not sure. Some of them probably were. Looking back though, it’s hard for me to say, because I never really thought about wealth until recently.
Which brings me to this question: What IS wealth anyway?
While technically wealth is having more than enough money or possessions, I think it’s something more than that too.
I think it’s also a matter of feeling like you have more than enough.
Do you feel wealthy? Would you answer a poll that said “Are you rich?” with a yes?
I did recently, and was surprised to see that most other people said no.
Of course I’m wealthy. I have a family that I love, enough food to eat, an air conditioned place to live, and a job to go to. I’m also not living paycheck to paycheck, and I can even take vacations!
But I don’t meet my childhood definition of rich. (The only part of that definition that I meet is that I own a business.)
Of course, I think my childhood definition of rich is probably flawed, but it’s interesting to see how our perspectives are formed.



August 24th, 2009 at 10:53 am
I am rich inside and out. I have my family, friend and good health and of course I have more than enough
When I was a child a nice car and a big house was my definition of rich. Now it’s the same but with very few debt and a fat savings acct
August 24th, 2009 at 11:35 am
That question is part of why I like the book “Money Happiness” so much. She asks questions like, do you have clean drinking water? Are you literate? Do you have electricity? All things we routinely take for granted, yet make us infinitely “better off” than much of our global human family.
I consider myself insanely rich–wonderful family and friends, cute puppies, nice apartment in a great city that I fully inhabit (no massive, unused space here!), good job…I’m literate (most days), have lots of modern conveniences, oy! The list is endless.
Gotta say I found the opening of this post adorable–you were a go-getter with great business sense, even as a child!