Want to see me paralyzed with indecision?

Want to see me paralyzed with indecision? Give me a thousand bucks to spend on something fun. If it can’t be a trip somewhere, I’m pretty much at a loss. This doesn’t mean I don’t want anything. There ARE things that I want. When I don’t have the money, I CAN think of things I’d like to buy.

For example, I’d love to have a leather sectional. But if I have the money and go to actually BUY it, I find making the purchase extremely difficult. I think of all the other things I could be doing with the money instead. I think about my list of goals that I have. I look for just the right item, and rarely find it. Many times I decide to wait instead, indefinitely.

I even find it difficult to buy things when they’re something that I’ve wanted for months and months that I know I can afford. (Like the iPhone.) Or things that I’ve saved up for. It pains me to part with the money.

I finally realized (during a recent failed attempt to buy a sectional) that the reason I feel like this is because it feels like deciding AGAINST everything else. If I buy the couch, I can’t get new windows with that money. I can’t invest. I can’t donate it. I can’t do anything else with that money, because it will be GONE. But as long as I still have the money, I could do anything with it.

So I agonize and agonize about stuff like that. I don’t think this is necessarily a terrible thing (it’s better than being unable to control my spending, for example) but it’s not really fun. On the plus side, once I finally DO buy something I’m usually extremely happy with it. (My most recent splurge, for example, was the tree that I’m so happy about it.)

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  • That’s what’s hard about being deliberate with your money. It’s tough to let it go, even when it goes toward an item you’ve carefully selected! But, probably like you, I don’t have ANY trouble shelling out thousands for an exclusive vacation to the tropics.

    I have a bad, bad time with “buyer’s remorse” everytime I put my money toward a physical item. I’m always finding myself wondering later if I should’ve gotten “the other color” or saved that money to put toward something else. I suppose that’s why I don’t love to go clothes shopping.

  • Yeah, I have the same problem as you. I always think that it will get cheaper in the future. The person that knows how to spend money is my hubby. If i give him $1000 to spend he will buy a PS3 and a sound system right now.

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